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[threemeninaboat]

Now, at least one of you is in charge of kicking my ass for making out with a slutty redheaded lesbian. Because sometimes I forget that these creatures are evil and can bring no good. We all know that if Satan showed up as redheaded lesbian she could have my soul real easy.


.......

Thanksgiving weekend was basically spent sleeping, crying, puking, and fucking. No painting.

Will someone please tell me how to get rid of these damn pigeons living in my roof?


Argument:
Normally, I don't really have a problem with monogamy, other than the fact that it eats me up inside.... redhead... thank God I don't know any Asian women.....
Since I "digitally penetrated" a woman, behind closed doors, without informing him, he thinks he should get the same liberties.
I said we'd talked about this already and he could go around "digitally penetrating" all the BOYS he wanted. He says no, if I get to do it, he gets to do it.
I don't want to open any of these doors.... because, if I knew he touched another woman without me being there, I'd break his face.... grrrrr....
This will probably have to be discussed before the next holiday... Halloween, Thanksgiving.. and well, I've already spoken to her about Christmas....



crossfire_, try the Safeway Tortilla con Queso soup in a bag and throw in all the suggested add in's, YUMMY. Best way to get rid of all that turkey

Comments

[randomdreams.livejournal.com]

Hrm. Sounds like you should add 'cute redheaded chicas' to your interests list!
And that's a frustrating situation. Discuss, discuss. Good luck.

[ziz]

Regarding pigeons: Have a couple of irritated squirrels move in, it seems to work well (but honestly, I preferred the pigeons...*sigh*)

[manintheboat.livejournal.com]

Actually, I have both! and mice... my roof is noisy.

Satan

[belgiandom.livejournal.com]

Did you get that redheaded lesbian is sent by satan idea from The Devils Advocate? Talk about a movie with some sexy chicks.... :-)

And ehm... maybe he doesn't mind you breaking his face? Read "The Ethical Slut" if you haven't yet... and read it with him. Very good book to get communication going and new ideas out on the table.

[hopeyhopey.livejournal.com]

I'll second the book recommendation... definitely worthwhile reading for tackling these sorts of issues.

[lacrimation.livejournal.com]

your a whore and todd should leave you.
your lucky to have someone that understanding in my book you cheated.

[manintheboat.livejournal.com]

You made out with me like 2 months ago. By your same ruling Mikey should leave you.

Poopyhead.

Re:

[lacrimation.livejournal.com]

when did this make out session happen cos i don't seem to remember. you must have dreamed it. besides kissing is alot different than getting fisted.

[crossfire.livejournal.com]

To get rid of the pigeons, try putting a mannequin owl up there. You can buy them at garden supply stores.

It sounds to me like you and Todd need to better define the boundaries of your relationship, and what counts as "cheating" and what counts as an extracurricular activity. It can be done, you just need to sit down and do it.

Regarding the Tortilla con Queso soup: I tried it already. Ick. Ick ick ick ick. Ick. Powdered cheese is not my thing. You can have mine.

[manintheboat.livejournal.com]

Owl: THANKS!!!!

a subject oft discussed

[firenflower.livejournal.com]

tribble and I are a poly couple, we've just been together a year and never acted on it yet. the Ethical Slut is his recommendation to me as well. I plan to read it. The most important thing I think, is to check with your primary partner first. Have set rules about what is okay and what is not. With us, we've decided pretty much anything is okay as long as the one who wants it asks first. Then if i have a last minute freak out and i think it'll make things bad, I say no, or vice versa. It may be out of the moment to make that call, but try earlier in the evening. Ideally we want to share partners, though this can lead to more difficulties in finding partners (hence my frustration at not getting pussy, it's much easier to find when it's just for me) Consideration is the most important part, and putting your primary partner first, always.

Yet another vote...

[ziptie.livejournal.com]

for The Ethical Slut. Really, only about 20% of the book is about real poly-specific topics. The rest is about being responsible for your own feelings and issues, and about responsible, caring, honest communication. (See my earlier comment on the book, if you like.) That 80% should be required reading for all adults who participate in relationships of any kind.